An ex-girlfriend who wants you back and is flirty and needy is someone who still has strong feelings after the breakup and struggles with letting go. She often reaches out more than necessary, sends playful or flirty messages, and tries to keep your attention through jokes, compliments, or reminders of your past relationship. At the same time, she can come across as emotionally dependent, overthinking your responses and needing reassurance that you still care. She may swing between confidence and insecurity, hoping that being closer and more noticeable to you will lead to getting another chance together.